I don't know about you but I'm that girl who hangs around with all the guys. Yeah, this can be a great thing but it can come with some downsides too! I want to mention before this post starts, some of this is from personal experiences some of it is not so please don't start to assume things. Anyway! Here's 17 things only girls with guy friends will understand.
1. They always have an issue with the person you like. Even if that person is Calum Hood...
Their nose it too big, he's a jerk, don't even bother with him. You're friends will find anything wrong with the guy you like but as soon as the tables are turned, you can't say anything against their crush.
2. They talk about their typical 'guy things' whenever your around. Sometimes they even bring out pictures - EW, I don't want to be seeing that thanks!
No girl wants to be hearing about those things. No girl wants to see another girls nudes and yes, that does happen. Sometimes, boys just need to learn not to steer onto that particular topic of conversation.
3. Drama? Yeah, you still get that.
You are never drama free. Never. Guys are just as bad - they spread gossip and get into sticky situations just like us girls.
4. Girls always try to befriend you in order to get closer to your guy friends.
You can forget trying to get new girlfriends when you're friends with a load of guys. You can never be sure on their intentions.
5. Sometimes all you get is hate off of other girls.
It's inevitable - if looks could kill, you'd be six feet under.
6. You can never get through a day without someone saying something about you and one of your friends having some type of romantic relationship.
Frustrating is not the word, the amount of times you've mentioned it to everyone but they still don't get it. You would never date any of them!
7. Guys are afraid to ask you out because you're seen with a tonne of boys and they're unsure if you're dating any of them.
Again, you've made it clear so many times but it just doesn't get though some people's brains that it will never happen. Guys are so confusing.
8. Stuff the romantic relationships. They are the reason why you don't want one with most guys.
Having a group of guy friends makes you realise why you don't want a relationship. When you see their side of everything, you're instantly put off.
9. They are brutally honest at times.
If you're crush doesn't like you back, be prepared for the honest truth from your friends.
10. Most of the time, the topic of the conversation moves to sexual references.
It's an accident! Always! Somehow the topic steers into a sexual one and half the time it's completely unintentional, sometimes it's not.
11. Getting them to express their feelings is virtually IMPOSSIBLE!
They'll be there to hear you out but as soon as you suss something is up with one of them it's like they're a blank page. UGH! All you want to do is understand.
12. If you so happen to get a crush on one of your guy friends, you're pretty much screwed.
Half the time you can't help the crush developing it just happens. Usually, one of them figures out what's happening any then from there on, you're screwed, you've got to live with you friends teasing you.
13.Their girlfriends are always a bit suspicious about you.
If one of them has a girlfriend, they start to get a bit protective. You may know more about them or have a closer relationship - whatever it is you won't see that particular friend very often.
14. You're always the one to get picked on in your friendship circle.
It's because you're a girl and you know it.
15. You're always conscious on what you say or do in case it comes across wrong. You know you'll get singled out for it.
Even if you touch one of their arms or say something that comes off as a bit flirty - you have to watch everything you do and say because guys are guys and they think every girl loves them, let's be honest here.
16. Do not and I repeat, DO NOT share any embarrassing secrets with them - you won't ever escape to tormenting.
You will never live it down, I promise you that one.
17. They'll always have your back.
There's nothing I need to add to this. It's one of the best perks of having guy friends.
Until next time...
Sophie xx
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